Quantum Units Education®

Men And Grief

1. Men all grieve in the same way, that's why it's good to know how they think.

2. Anger and guilt help provide the control men need to heal.

3. Men often talk about the things we did for our loved one, how they took care of them, what they are doing now and what they plan to do in the future.

4. If men do not talk about their feelings they will not heal from their loss.

5. "Tell me your story" and "What have been your reactions?" are helpful questions for men.

6. Most men prefer support to be in the form of taking some action or having a plan.

7. When a partner has died, it is vital that the survivor get involved with someone else after a year has passed.

8. Men cannot live alone. They need a woman to fulfill their emotional needs.

9. Many times the questions men ask surrounding when or not to get involved in a new intimate relationship comes from fears of losing someone again.

10. It is important that men learn how to get over their grief and move on.